Because without accurate communication and true understanding of each others' realities and emotions in relation to them, then you don't even have real relationship to begin with.

How can you be expected to do or choose things right/correctly when the other person(s) you are most concerned about and 'linked-to' aren't even effectively communicating the feedback loop of how your words and actions and emotions and reality are impacting them in order to correct it or improve/troubleshoot it if anything is wrong?

What good is that?  Get all the worsts, negatives, feared problems, concerns, blah, blah, blah out of the way up front (or be willing to) so you get that token goodwill chip, and also put the fair/best interest of the other person first by getting any bad stuff out at first before emotions are involved, and in my perfect world of 'more proper' behavior in love and life the other person would behave in the same way in order to protect you and insure the very integrity of the relationship to start and keep it there.

Trust, respect, consideration, and communication are massively important abilities in my 'Beautiful Mind x///' esque world and 'way of Being', so it warms my heart to see some people in the world are at least capable of and proactively willing/desiring/intelligent-enough-to be wanting to engage in communication like this/that.

What does it say on her hat?  Super Dad or Super Dog or ???

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